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Being Petty And Knowing When To Stop

Being Petty And When To Stop

To be petty or not to be petty, that is the question. There are several advantages and disadvantages of being petty.

Sometimes being petty is good in some situations, but it should be just enough pettiness to let the person know how you feel. For example, if someone drank your juice from the office fridge, and you’ve identified them, you throw their cake in the trash.

That’s just common courtesy.

However, when the pettiness goes a little overboard, that’s when the case gets messy. After a certain age, I think the petty crown can retire in a box in the attic.

I’ve been in the corporate world for a little over two years, and I’m still amazed at the level of pettiness I’ve seen from some of the experienced employees. It did have me questioning whether or not they grew out of their teenage stage.

From jealousy, a high level of office politics, envy, gossip, innuendo, to just plain meanness among some of the staff.

I thought at this stage; we’d put on our big boys and girls underwear and share our displeasure calmly and rationally. Even three-year-olds have grasped the concept of ‘feelings hour’.

Instead, we have adults plotting and scheming their professional warfare.

Just last week, a coworker hid a few of the company files. The personnel in charge of maintaining cabinet left for lunch and closed the cabinet; which is the standard company protocol and the mentioned coworker, apparently so torn up about the situation, that when she gained access to the files, hid them files and reported it to make the personnel appear irresponsible.


Personally, I think it’s better to be open and vocal, even when its categorized as being ’emotional’. Instead of letting personal feelings override professionalism and reduce productivity.

Plus it reduces the workplace chances of becoming toxic. If you haven’t read my post on that, catch up here.

Have you dealt with pettiness in a professional work environment? Let me know in the comment section or tweet me your experiences.

I’ve Been Nominated For An Award

The Blogger Recognition Award

Happy Weekend Guys!!!

If you’re following me on Twitter, then you guys are aware that I’ve been on vacation for two weeks…whoo hoo! And during the vacay, I decided to restart my fitness journey which has been super difficult.

Exercise is fudging hard! While nursing my sore muscles, I was pleasantly surprised to find out that I was nominated for The Blogger Recognition Award.

What is the Blogger Recognition Award?

The Blogger Recognition Award is given to bloggers by bloggers who appreciate the hard work, dedication and vast amount of hours we all put into every post, as well as keeping the website current and updated. I was nominated by my girl Sayward who blogs over Saynthings. Thank you so much for nominating me, I am honoured to be included on your list of bloggers. Her blog is amazing so go check her out guys!

How My Blog Got Started

For years I wanted to start a blog, but I always quit after writing the first post. In January of this year, I started thinking toying with the idea again, and my significant other told me to do it. In February, I wrote my first post, and here we are.

The origin of the name took me awhile but finally; I decided to make it a combination of my first and last name. For months, I tried coming up with a niche, and I realized that a lifestyle blog would be the perfect fit.

After getting my groove, I redesigned and transferred my blog from Wix to self-hosted WordPress and relaunched in August.

Two Advice For New Bloggers

Blogging can be overwhelming. When I first started, I was so confused. Talks of SEOs, Instagram Algorithms, DAs had me ready to run to the hills.

  1. Patience – When you first start out, you’ll likely think that things will just happen and your blog will be a success overnight. Blogging is hard work, and there are no shortcuts. Just be patient and trust the process, it may seem easier to give up, but if you’re passionate about your blog, then you’ll put the work in. I had several moments where I was intimidated and jealous by the success of other bloggers and whining to my SO asking,’When will it be my turn?’
  2. Be yourself!- I can’t stress this enough. You will admire other bloggers and think that emulating their style will help your blog, but you’re only hurting yourself and your brand. Every day there is someone new creating a blog, but they aren’t you. Find your voice and be confident in your writing.

Bonus advice

Have fun! It is a job, but it is also an extension of you. If you aren’t passionate or genuine about your content, then your readers will spot that a mile away.

The rules say that I should nominate 15 other bloggers, but I have my top six. I’ve come across many talented bloggers, whose works I love so it was really difficult choosing.

  1. Reflection of Des
  2. Irie Diva
  3. 876 Lover
  4. The Sarai Ashari
  5. Ms Sparkle And Glow
  6. Mr. Gray

Join some Facebook groups, interact with your fellow bloggers on Twitter, Instagram etc. and learn more about them and their work.

Until next time. Nuff Love, Sheviimc.


I’m in Love With The Handbag Hanger

I’m in Love With The Handbag Hanger

Do you remember the first time you saw that gorgeous handbag? The vibrant colour, the silky texture, the envious stares from your friends? How powerful you felt when you stepped into that meeting with it slung over your shoulder?

Admit it, your bags have been there for you. Through earlier mornings, long nights, forgetful and stressful moments, they’ve held your hand.

But have you been there for your bags? More importantly, have you been showing them, love?

My bags are my babies however, I’m guilty of not showing them enough love. While I treat them with care when I wear them out, they’re usually tossed in a corner, on the chair or stuffed in some box because of the limited space.

Seven out of ten times, they get creases and twists that ruin their beauty. I was tempted to slow down my love affair until I found out about the handbag hanger.


The answer is simple….it’s where your bags belong when you’re not wearing them. HBH is an Austrailian company founded by the talented, chief lover of bags, Michelle Zillman.

You would have read her guest post about the hottest handbag trends and the hanger last month.

Personally, I think the handbag hanger is an ingenious idea.

  1. Saves space
  2. Makes my room or closet look more organized- I no longer have a big box cluttering my closet and ruining my shoes.
  3. Portability- It can be moved from one place to the next, wherever you feel comfortable.
  4. It’s made out of strong steel that doesn’t bend or rust, so it’s guaranteed to last.
  5. My handbags never looked happier
  6. It’s not just for bags! Scarfs, jewellery…you name it.

If our dresses, t-shirts and shoes have their own storage method, why not our bags?


The hanger comes in 2 sizes; Petite and Grande. The Petite holds 2 bags and can carry up to 231 pounds roughly. The Grande holds up to 12 bags and carries up to 110 pounds roughly. With the heaviest bag weighing 16 pounds.

There are four collections to choose from named after the world’s 4 major fashion centres: New York, London, Milan and Paris.These collections are based on the number and types of bags that the designers think typically owned.

Of course, if you desire more space you can always, order several collections based on your needs.

I received the Paris model which included a Grande hanger, a Petite hanger and fourteen (14) spongy strap supports.

Assembling the hanger was easy, I just had to push the straps onto the hanger. It was a bit tight in getting the straps on but with a little force, it was on.

The Petite hanger is the perfect accessory for a lunch or dinner out. If you have no available space to place your bag in the restaurant, you can hook the hanger to your chair and store your bag and/or scarf.

The Petite Hanger

The Petite Hanger

The Grande Hanger

The Grande Hanger

Spongy Straps Supports

Unbelievable right? Can you see why I’m in love?

Final Thoughts

I absolutely recommend the handbag hanger to anyone. It’s not just a great accessory for storage space for your bags, scarves and jewellery but it’s an excellent way to preserve your investments.
It’s the perfect gift for yourself and a friend.
You can use the coupon code ‘ShevHBH’ to receive 20% off your purchases and tag my Instagram and the handbag hanger to show us how much you love your collection.
 Until next time! Nuff love Sheviimc.
Disclaimer: I received the handbag hanger in exchange for this review. All thoughts and opinions are my own.

A Special Wish For You

“I cannot even imagine where I would be today were it not for that handful of friends who have given me a heart full of joy. Let’s face it, friends make life a lot more fun”.
Charles R. Swindoll

As we grew up, many friends we made in our teen phase, did not transition into our adult lives. The few who did, we treasure especially when you live oceans apart with only technological options of communication.

After awhile, those WhatsApp and text conversations seem so impersonal. Delayed responses, the difference in time zones, career and family responsibilities, you can’t help but feel a void in your friendship, a gap in a once well-oiled machine.

How do you let someone know how much they mean to you when you are miles apart?

You send them a wish.

I’m not talking about waiting on a shooting star or a birthday wish. I’m talking about a physical, tangible, personalized wish.

That’s where A Wish For You comes in.

A Wish For You offers the services of delivering a small memento accompanied by a personal card with a message created by you; to share with someone special in your life.

When I came across their Instagram Page, I had just spoken to a friend of mine who’s expecting her first child next month. She was expressing some difficulties in her pregnancy and how she had to manage some of the responsibilities with the help of her grandmother because the father of her child was travelling for business.

She felt alone and although she didn’t admit it, I could tell she was scared.

I thought that their service would be the perfect way to show her that she wasn’t alone in her pregnancy. Kyra, the Engagement Director and her amazing team provided me with an excellent platform to do just that.

The Process

First, I had to choose a gift. I went with the Giraffe Night Light as an addition to the decoration of the nursery.

Browsing the website

Giraffe Lamp

Next, I had to choose a card to accompany the gift. Now, in my excitement, I totally missed this step. However, Kyra had my back! She sent me a quick message via Instagram to let me know of the issue and picked out a beautiful onesies card for my friend.

A Wish For You Greeting Card

The final step was to create a message to be included.

The day the package was delivered, my friend had just returned from the hospital, after a scare. The timing was perfect. I’m almost convinced that A Wish For you planned this.

The setup was too perfect.

The package was even wrapped in purple; my friend’s favourite colour and I had no discussions with the team about this.

I kid you not.

The Package received

The team went all out to make this quite special. My friend was beyond happy. She sent me several videos throughout the day with the night lamp.

Special shout out to Kyra, you made this an incredible experience. I will definitely be using this service again.

Guys, if you haven’t utilized this service, you definitely should. I will be providing you with a discount code on my social media. If you have used A Wish For You, let me know of your experience in the comment section.

Disclaimer: I received the service in exchange for writing this review.  Although this post is sponsored, all opinions are my own.


By Michelle Zillman,

Chief Bag Lover,


Who doesn’t love a ‘top trends’ list, I know I do. So here’s my latest list of the hottest bag trends right now…


Huge right now, quite literally, is the trend of statement handles. Whether they be oversized, studded, made of rope, gilded – the point is that handles are now becoming a feature in themselves. No longer just a way of picking up your bag; now it’s a bag pick me up!

louis vuitton bag

Louis Vuitton


Givenchy Bag



Remember as a kid when you used to get your empty chip packet and shrink it in the oven? (If you don’t you’ve had a deprived childhood – sorry you missed out on this!). Anyway, this trend reminds me of it. These bags literally look like shrunken down versions of ‘real bags’. Of course, these bags are real, only thing is, if you need to fit more than a Tic Tac in some of them, you might struggle. Cute but not sure how practical this trend is. But hey, when has fashion ever really been practical; it should be about fun after all. And fun this is.

Hermes Bag


Akris Bag


Valentino Bag


Coach Bag



Proof that we live in a crazy world of opposites and extremes, the other big trend is big; actually, make that massive bags! Yep, oversized bags are hot right now. With these bags you can fit the whole Tic Tac factory inside; the only problem is, you may not be able to pick it up after you’ve done so. A Chiropractor’s dream.

Two of my faves are by Sonia Rykiel and Loewe.

Sonia Rykiel Bag

Sonia Rykiel

Loewe Bag



Just think of these as the bucket bag evolved. Fashion is most often an evolution instead of revolution, and this is a great and beautiful example. I personally love this trend, a ‘cinch’ always feels soft and feminine so a winner in my book.

My top picks for ‘cinchers’ right now are Alexander Wang, Victoria Beckham, Altuzuarra, Givenchy and Marni.

Alexander Wang Bag

Alexander Wang

But no matter what bag you choose, remember to always treat it with love; on its own handbag hanger. After all, when our favourite outfit comes off, it’s slipped carefully onto its hanger. Jackets, t-shirts, tights, they all have their own place. But sadly, our treasured, beautiful bags haven’t.

Until now. With thh – the handbag hanger; your bags have a place where they belong. And no matter where in the world you are, you and your bags can enjoy our brilliant Aussie invention because we ship worldwide. We love it, and we know you will too, so jump on the handbag hanger trend.